Again I checked the other apps: my Drive , Photos Mobile, with the wifi off so on cell and went through each app.
Message came up on DS video as well but not Drive or Photos. Okay I haven't tried this with CarPlay yet but I see I just earned a "trophy" for 100 posts.... I think I should have my trophy canceled... I hereby return it... The reason is and I'll admit it ... I did something stupid. How unusual! My cell data switch was off in the iPhone setting for the app. If in admitting this I am banished for awhile I deserve it.
Thanks for your help and patience. Maybe I can blame it on sunspots or something but no doubt age has something to do with it.