Hi, I have a very basic understanding of VPN's having used them to surf and download anonymously. However, I'm having trouble getting my head around what my VPN needs are when It comes to my NAS. I'll try to explain my situation and what I would like to accomplish in the hope that someone can point me in the right direction.
My situation
I have a DS920+ that I run several services on including Plex, Sonarr, Photos, Drive, Bitwarden, LanguageTool etc.
Family members access these services using desktops and mobile devices, and over both LAN and WAN.
What I want to achieve
Protect all users' privacy.
Secure all data on the NAS as much as possible.
Ensure the services running on my NAS can access the web with as much privacy and security as possible.
Allow users to access the NAS, and services able to access the web, without being slowed down too much.
What I have
I've just paid for a 2-year subscription to a VPN service (NordVPN).
A reasonable internet connection, 350mbps down and 36mbps up.
Questions:

My situation
I have a DS920+ that I run several services on including Plex, Sonarr, Photos, Drive, Bitwarden, LanguageTool etc.
Family members access these services using desktops and mobile devices, and over both LAN and WAN.
What I want to achieve
Protect all users' privacy.
Secure all data on the NAS as much as possible.
Ensure the services running on my NAS can access the web with as much privacy and security as possible.
Allow users to access the NAS, and services able to access the web, without being slowed down too much.
What I have
I've just paid for a 2-year subscription to a VPN service (NordVPN).
A reasonable internet connection, 350mbps down and 36mbps up.
Questions:
- If I set up a VPN server on the NAS, I presume users can only access the NAS by connecting to the VPN server first?
- Does this mean all users need to use VPN client software i.e., built into Windows/Android etc. when connecting to the NAS?
- If so, how does this affect things like the Plex and the Synology Photos or Audio Station apps?
- Does QuickConnect work through a VPN? Or do I need to bypass the VPN for some services, is this split tunnelling?
- To secure the services that access the web like Sonarr and Radarr I presume I also need to set up the NAS as a VPN client too. Is this feature built into the NAS or do I need to install something i.e., Docker?
- To try to keep connections as fast as possible, WireGuard seems to be the way to go from what I've read, but after searching the web it seems to be quite difficult to set up. If this is what you recommend is there any other advice you can offer, or resources you can point me too?
- I believe I need to whitelist my LAN, but are those devices still connected to the VPN full time to increase their privacy/security?
- Obviously I don't fully grasp this yet, so is there any other advice/help you can offer?