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"If a folder and its subfolders have conflicting indexing rules, the system will only follow the rules for subfolders."
I wonder if you can make a new rule in Control Panel - Indexing Service for the recycle bins, and have each type of media unticked. For example, an entry for /music/#recycle but untick photos, music and video. Not sure it will work but worth a go.